I got this most amazing newsletter today that I just had to share it! In fact you will see my name as one of those who gave testimonial for it. I don’t make any money off offering this ebook to you, its just that its so neat of a ebook that its kind of a real beauty secret. Not many of you know why dancers seem to have all the men, or even why when you watch dancing with the stars on tv why one couple with win over the other. Its all in the way a dancer shows off her stuff without really showing off anything.. 
Here is the newsletter I got this morning that I felt you just might get a kick out of!
I did ask permission first and Patty the cool lady she is, said go right ahead!!
“Do we REALLY understand our purpose as women?”
Dear Kim:
Have you ever felt confused with all the information that has being given to you and then, be at a stand still for fear of making the wrong move?
Well, I sure have… plenty of times. The day I made a commitment to question the direction of my life, was the day I understood the meaning of the word responsibility. I can remember reading so much information on any topic and then feeling hesitant to take a step, afraid to make a decision for it could be the wrong one because I couldn’t use ignorance as an excuse any longer.. Exhausting!
Some deep breathing and a smacks across the head (my Italian upbringing came in handy), usually put me back on track. All this… “How do I fix it? How can I avoid this? How can I make it better?”… was shutting down my feelings. I was disconnecting with the very part of me that is female.. my heart.
So now, I needed to understand why I kept detaching from my feelings.
(I know, it sounds like I have a disorder).
During my endeavor, I recognized how to align with my feminine more deeply.
So what does that mean?
I’ve spent some time studying male and female energy and comprehending the meaning of each.
Let’s start by defining both.. first male energy.
It’s the element where drive, focus, discipline and purpose stems from. It is solution oriented always looking for the best strategy to accomplish the result needed. Male energy plans, organizes, leads and controls any situation to encourage success.
Now let’s look at female energy.
The energy is sensual, open, life force and creates space for emotions and feelings to flow. The feminine is a state inducer that enjoys revealing the senses. It’s sustained by color, sound, touch, taste, smell and intuition for it longs to feel love through everything and everyone.
Alright… now you have a brief description of both.
Can you see how living in a society where pursuing deadlines and achieving goals has denied our state of “being” and “feeling”.We are so busy planning with our minds that we tend to ignore our senses, our emotions and our bodies. We are walking around almost out of touch.
Luckily, some of us take yoga classes, dance classes, cooking classes, learn how to play an instrument… anything to get back into what our essence needs to feel nourished… Love.
What do I mean by love?
Our body and our heart yearns to be loved. Deep down we are wanting to be seen for who we are, beyond our suits that we wear to portray our professional lives.
Underneath each suit, lies a woman… a sensual woman who loves every part of her body, mind and spirit. She is vulnerable and wants to feel secure to surrender to the love of a an without fear that he will be frightened by her demonstration of tears.
We’ve become purpose driven women who can achieve any goal we set, yet may have forgotten that our feminine needs to be nurtured.
So, how do we do that?
We embrace our purpose!
I’ve observed using your feminine energy, body language and compassion to inspire and invite a man to connect with his heart and yours while cherishing the value of your needs, keeps you aligned with your purpose.
In other words, entice and attract, keep your needs in the forefront of your mind and chop of his balls with LOVE when he doesn’t act with integrity.
Sound harsh?
Not really. Understand this isn’t an invitation to nag a man because you will repel him and it’s not an invitation to avoid expression what you need because he won’t see your worth. It is an invitation to come from a place of compassion (because we are all trying to do our best) and stand in your values.
So what does all of this have to do with body language and sensuality?
EVERYTHING!
This helped me realize that I am more than just flirting with a man… I’m inviting him to his heart because most men have a difficult time with this.. it is not part of the male energy. And what makes a woman attractive is her ability to lead a man to his heart fist through her body language and most importantly through her heart.
This has given me a renewed sense of purpose… leading with my feminine energy!
This is why body language and sensuality is extremely important to learn.
I have realized how being in my body helps me connect with my feminine energy more.
This is why YOU need to read my book.
Insider you’ll see pictures and detailed descriptions of how to stand, walk, sit and use eye contact to achieve rapport with a man. You’ll find that each description to be easy to understand and effortless to accomplish.
You can download your copy of my ebook Sensuality Secrets right and pay nothing. If you like it, keep it and you’ll be automatically billed..
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http://www.sensualitysecrets.com/getbook.htm
Embrace your feminine and celebrate your sensuous power!
Sensually yours,
Patty Contenta
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